Telugu Wedding Diary!

Telugu Wedding Diary!

Telugu weddings are known for their colour, fun and grandeur! The typical Telugu wedding goes on for a few days and is packed with yards of fun and culture. Be it any wedding, the participation and enthusiasm of the family matters the most and you can easily experience that in a Telugu wedding. 1545081_578949535517876_869910430_n 11160059_929548393763023_2294593313185240043_o The first pre-wedding function begins with Muhurtham. Surrounded by a priest and the elders of both the families, an auspicious date is hand-picked after measuring all astrological and religious indices. The next in line is called the Haldi ceremony or the Pendikoothuru. Smearing the bride and groom to be with yellow turmeric paste and giving them a good oil baste for purification. It goes without saying that immediately following this, the girl and boy are presented with a new saree and dhoti respectively.

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Telugu Wedding Colors 3 Telugu Wedding Colors 2 But it�s not only the bride and groom that get presents. All the married aunts, sisters and grandmothers present are given away betel leaves, sweets, flowers, bangle, the whole works. It�s believed that their blessings are the best way to initiate the bride-to-be amongst them. Most of the ceremonies are presided over by women. The glimmer of saree and jingle of bangles does not fail to catch one�s attention, even if one doesn�t grasp the fireworks of a typical South Indian wedding. Kamal Kiran (35) 10887467_589982314471818_359254763991359887_o 11181229_1437481906563083_4781550552647762336_o 1463717_700114080008024_251765490_n The typical Telugu wedding happens after sunset. So before making their way to the Mandap/Temple, the soon-to-be missus is required to make a quick prayer called the Gauri puja while the groom is supposed to offer similar prayers to Lord Ganesha. This is to ward off all the evils, obstacles and to receive blessings for their holy union. Amar Ramesh Photography (3) Traditionally, Telugu weddings were conducted in a temple but lately, marriage halls and hotel banquets work just fine in creating a perfect ambience. The flower and mango leaves ornately strung in different colours do their job well in adding to that.

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  After all pre-wedding shivers have been shed, the bride is then escorted to the hall usually by a maternal uncle mostly in a basket or pallakku or even walk in with a intricately designed canopies and the stage for the proceedings is set with upholstered flowers twined prettily. 10441957_699815123387190_3944360413328248771_n Shutter Worthy Photography (6)


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The newly arrived groom and bride actively partake in rubbing cumin - tamarind paste onto each other�s heads to signify a bond that is to be inseparable. This ritual is called Jeelakarra Bellam. Kamal Kiran (64) Shutter Worthy Photography (7)


Now all that�s left is for the girl�s parents is to officially give their daughter away to her husband. This ritual is called Kanyadhaan and the parents wash the groom�s feet offering their daughter�s hands. The obliging grooms promise to love and respect their bride in return. Now is when the bride makes the final transformation. From the regular silk she wears, she is then carted off to the dressing room to don her final bridal saree. Most of them wear the white and red combination that stands for the purity and strength embedded into the promise of holy matrimony. 1422627_10152105417008824_48382443_n Kishore Krishnamoorthy (40) Sravya_Wedding-1156  

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Oh, it is important to mention that all this while, the bride and groom although seated together were separated by a curtain. It is only now that the curtain is removed and they finally see each other in all their wedding-glow. The groom is handed the Mangalsutra, a yellow thread which is the awaited moment of the whole ceremony. He ties 3 knots of the Mangalsutra around the bride symbolizing their physical, mental and spiritual union. Amar Ramesh Photography (25) 73001_10151352211423824_1988091775_n 11874976_1485222905122316_4929014084387679705_o Soumya Radesh Photography (50) Fishing the ring is where the fun part of the wedding lies. While the couple look for a ring in the pot, the families cheer them up and enjoy the game just like the couple. 10981047_923675414343356_6591681025119897469_o 12143257_898746260207659_4686484084724867558_n 12310721_921514931264125_5688335694390484705_n


Then comes Talambralu where the bride and groom take turns to pour on each other�a handful of yellow rice or pearls mixed with saffron while a priest recites the mantras. 11083729_833292780039423_529048168140679685_o 11224353_399217576950656_1116522744025318490_o 1236804_658832710802828_157956908_n 1619289_761870137165751_1937371459_n


They exchange garlands while everyone showers the new couple with yellow rice or akshada in blessing and watch them walk around the fire seven times as man and wife. This is called the Saptapadi or Sthaalipaakam. After they make their promises, the new husband puts a silver ring on the bride�s toe officiating an end to all the wedding ceremonies. 996978_10152105417078824_1711321208_n 1399456_10151986156023824_1202626244_o Fotozone (52) 905240_10151986156598824_1891670799_o The wedding ends with the usual set of events like Arundathi natchatram, vidai and finally the gruhapravesh, where the bride enters her new home! Neeta Shankar  (24) Soumya Radesh Photography (3) 11038398_927967323909669_2838908835888672398_n 20150205-Manasa-Chethan-Wedding-A004-617 Kishore Krishnamoorthy (7) Although many in number, each of the ceremony is encrusted with heavy spiritual reasons and beliefs noticed in most Hindu weddings. A window into a telugu wedding tale tells us this, that marriages although manifold in its layers, can be a lot of fun. After all, it is a chance to meet your near and dear ones, a sort of coming together to watch new bonds forge. Kamal Kiran (21) 1450666_701788066507292_579478488_n